5 Signs Your Husband Is Cheating

by: PaulineStradlen
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If you are suspicious that your husband may be cheating on you, let him make as many mistakes as possible as these are all ammunition for you. Do not confront him until you have sufficient evidence to prove your suspicions. You'll find below some of the most important signs that your partner is cheating on you.

1. A large majority of cheaters will do so in their own beds at some point during a relationship. If you think your partner may have cheated on you in your own bed, or may still be doing it, here is a good tip. Make your bed in a particular way that is different from the normal way you do it, if your husband has been using at he will have made it afterwards, and you will be able to tell.

2. Enlist one of your girlfriends to help. Make sure it is one that he doesn't know, then get her to hit on him and have her record it. The easiest way to do this is to have her call you answering service just before she starts talking to him, and then you can have the proof on call so to speak.

3. Your husband will definitely take advantage if he is left alone for a weekend. So to set another trap tell him that you will be away all weekend, give him precise times for when you are leaving and when you will be back. Then say goodbye and find a good spot where you'll be able to watch your house, all you have to do now is wait and see.

4. You should be keeping a close eye on all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check all credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts and check everything for unusual transactions. These are sometimes obvious like motel rooms or gifts that you never received. However he may be devious, so check all cash withdrawals, chances are your husband is paying for things with cash to avoid a paper trail, if you notice that the same sum of money is leaving your account at the same time each week, then you can be pretty sure your cheating husband is using it to pay for a room with his new partner.Make note of any strange dates and times.

5. Always keep a close eye on his cell phone records, and your home phone records. Look out for repeated calls, or calls that last a long time, or at strange times of the day. Monitor how he uses his cellphone, does he move out of earshot before he answers it? Make note of all the times when his cell phone is turned off, is there a pattern to this?

If you feel the need to confront your husband but do not have concrete evidence, try bluffing him. You could try saying something like, I know you've been cheating on me and I'll give you one chance to confess. He may break down and confess everything, but he is just as likely to continue lying.

I can assure you that your husband will screw up sooner or later you will need to be patient, but remain watchful. An easy way to do this is to hire a PI, however this can be expensive and may not be necessary. My advice is that you follow the above steps, keep a watchful eye for any of these signs, and keep notes of any evidence.

About the Author

Pauline Stradlen works as a Private Investigator and runs a website for people who think they might be in a cheating relationship. To track your partners phone calls visit http://www.answersabc.com  

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