How to Make Meeting Women Fun and Easy - Part I

by: VinDiCarlo
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Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you're not even closer to your goal?

If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.

In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.

Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men's behavior than women.

(Let's not started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "beautiful.")

Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting.

... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.

I used to struggle with that too that's why I knew exactly what he meant.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

What I do is to have a sit and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.

I'd go home and be absolutely DEAD

... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).

It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in your interaction with women.

About the Author

Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating trainer, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.  

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