How to Make Meeting Women Fun and Easy - Part II

by: VinDiCarlo
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Here are the 3 reasons for this.

The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.

As I can remember, I don't have a pectoral muscles - (the one that is right at the top of your chest just under the clavicle that makes the chest look bigger) before I started lifting weights.

Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.

And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.

You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.

The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.

It's not really so much about "fatigue" but it's more on having an overwhelmed feeling.

One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It's like your body saying "Whew, enough for this much work, I'm quitting before I can even begin"

I have suffered from this feeling before when I was taking notes of a lot of theories. And as I looked what I've write, I see that I am just looking at the complicated thing just like a complex physics equation.

Doing ALL of this stuff just to had a quality women in my life was so discouraging to think.

The last reason why you feel socially exhausted is when you spend much mental energy and focus on stuff that isn't helpful to pick-up.

99 percent of men gets it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can't tell, because most men after suffering from a few harsh rejections learn to hide their inner "stuff."

But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.

As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends - generally it lets us know that man's role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return a woman will sleep with you.

That's Silly!

I see some advertisement of a guy bungling around to a cute girl trying to impress her, and looking like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better because she is woman. - I hate that kind of thing.

Ok enough ranting... the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating lives.

The matter of attraction for a guy will be change if he will only takes the time to adjust the way his mind works.

You need to get the most out of your body and mind so that it can lead you to the highest level of your interaction with women and that's what's really attractive.

A MAN AT HIS BEST.