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The Pick Up Artist and One Night Stands II
by: VinDiCarlo
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First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.
However, in any bar, club, or even a day-time situation, there are LOTS of horny women who would be open to getting down with you that same day or night. You just have to know how to spot these women.
Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.
The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't always true but is generally the case.
You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.
And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions. Also those women that is looking around the room more often than the other girls in their group.
They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.
Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.
Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.
The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you'll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.
Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic information to know how you can get her back to your place.
The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.
Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.
This is how it will works although it may sound that counter intuitive.
You have to believe that women wants to have sex and a lot of women in the place wants to have a fast getting laid down.
Some won't and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.
It will just be a waste of time.
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