Not Online Dating? You Should, 1 in 3 Women Put Out On 1st Date!

by: TomasN.Anderson
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Lady Doctor's Research Reveals That Women Are Horny Creatures Yes, that's right according to Dr. Paige Padgett of the University of Texas' School of Public Health, 1 in 3 women who date online get busy on the 1st date. Padgett's 2007 study was published the highly regarded journal, "Research & Social Policy, which is a journal affiliated with National Sexuality Research Center.

The research study focused on the dating habits of 740 women who had placed online dating profiles seeking men. The results were groundbreaking. Dr. Padgett discovered that 33% of the women had sex on the 1st date. And that 77% of those women who had sex didn't use condoms.

Virtual Intimacy Theory The good Doctor Padgett didn't merely conclude that these women were slutty. However, she did find that women who would otherwise be very careful did have unprotected sex because they were lulled into a false sense of virtual intimacy by men.

Dr. Padgett reasoned that the "virtual intimacy" was created by the disclosure and exchange of personal information through frequent e-mail and telephone calls. The women revealed information about their backgrounds, sexual preferences, and their likes and dislikes with the men they eventually slept with on their 1st date.

It was this exchange, says Padgett that fostered the "virtual intimacy". Women developed a sense that a relationship already existed (even if it didn't) which encouraged sexual intimacy at a faster rate than ordinary.

So What Does This Mean For Gents? The take home here is: Start Online Dating Today! You'll save money as it's cheaper than going to clubs & bars and you'll get laid on the 1st date 33% of the time. But make sure you use condoms.

My take on Padgett and her study: Her interpretation of the data is overly paternalistic and paints women as helpless creatures taken in by men that create a sphere of "virtual intimacy". Bullshit!

Using Common Sense and Logic to interpret Padgett's study reveals that she is wrong in her conclusions. Women know what they want: An attractive male that meets their dating criteria. They choose one or several from the many that email them. Then they question these candidates and weed out those who don't meet their dating criteria. For that successful candidate who doesn't disqualify himself: It's naked time!

If you scrutinize the data you'll see what's really occurring here. The women in Dr. Padgett's study are the ones speeding up the sexual relationship. The women in her study (and all online women daters) try to gather as much info about their potential mates as possible. And they do all of this info aggregation before meeting face-to-face, by email or over the telephone.

Why? For one reason: to allow themselves to participate in naked time as soon as possible. When a woman finally convinces herself that a man meets her dating qualifications she will have sex with him. In Padgett's study, the women had decided after reading email and having telephone conversations that they would sleep with their dates on their first meeting because the man in question had met her qualifications or at least enough of them for sex!

Putting Padgett's Study To Work For You. The bottom line here is: women want sex just as much as you do. But, and this is the most important factor I've gleaned from Padgett's study and from my own online dating experiences: Women want to convince themselves that you are a Quality Guy and that you meet their criteria.

Not understanding this fact leads many guys to shoot themselves in the foot. They wrongly believe that they need power, fame, or money to have success with women. My secret that is supported by Padgett's work: To be successful in online dating requires only that do not disqualify yourself. Women have dating qualifications yes. Women have all sorts of questions, yes.

But, women only need you to answer their inquiries and present yourself in very straightforward manner in order that they can say to themselves, "Hey this guy is normal, he's available, and he's mine." They must be able to give themselves permission to have sex.

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